Wednesday, January 24, 2007
was watching a drama on channel 8 "The Peak" n dere was a scene @ e start of e show which caught mi attention!! e scene was abt jeanette aw (her name in e show is xiaoyang) telling qi yuwu (his name in e show is tianjun) tt she likes him n doesnt want to be juz his good fren but wants to be his gf instead!! after saeing tt n seeing no reaction fr tianjun...she walks away sadly!! tianjun sees xiaoyang as only his best fren n he likes another girl...dis sets mi thinking abt it!! it oso got mi to think of a qn which yy asked mi a few days back on msn..."do you believe that dere can be a good fren relationship wif a guy??"!!!! hmmm.....
i told her i believed that a guy n a girl can be purely good frenz...coz i haf a rather good male fren as well!! but when i asked neville dis qn...e answers he gave made mi tink tt mi answer is rather unreasonable!! he didnt believe that 2 pple of diff sexes can be good frenz coz he feels dere's bound to be feelings despite within a party or both parties!! its either 1 party likes e other person but dun dare to tell him/her or both parties like each other but dun want to sae it out for sum reasons!! it caused mi to re-consider e qn which yy asked mi...i mean i still believe dere can be such a ting happening...but how abt in e long run?? can anybody guarantee tt @ least 1 party won't like e other?? feelings grow as time pass...if 2 pple alwaes go out so often or if nt sms or chat on msn frequently...who can promise dere won't be feelings??
i still rmb when i went chocolate buffet wif mi gd fren clarence last yr...he asked mi dis qn "did u ever tink if we may end up 2gether??"...haha dis came as quite a shock coz i didnt expect him to ask mi tt!! mi answer to him was "i dunno leh"...n he oso gave e same answer when i asked him tt!! we both dunno wat lies in e future for us...its juz a 50-50 answer!! sum pple fr e older generation feel tt gd frens shld be together (as in bgr) as dey feel both parties alr noe each other so well n r so close to each other!! but majority of pple fr our generation feel otherwise. we feel tt if 2 good frens r in a relationshop together...if dey unluckily break up...tt may mark e end of e frenship!! ironic huh?? if 2pple like each other...of coz dey'll want to be together but dey're oso scared tt their friendship will be destroyed if anyting happens!! so pathetic....
well wateva tt happens in e future...we'll juz leave it to fate!!! i guess no1 has a definite answer to dis qn...everybody haf their own views!!! juz sum advice to dose pple who r turning fr gd frens to boy-girl frenz...pls ask urselves if both parties r confident of a long-lasting relationship!! if both parties aren't very confident...den ask if u tink both of u can still be frenz even if u all break up!! i feel its beta to be safe den sorry...anywae good luck peeps!!!! :)
i told her i believed that a guy n a girl can be purely good frenz...coz i haf a rather good male fren as well!! but when i asked neville dis qn...e answers he gave made mi tink tt mi answer is rather unreasonable!! he didnt believe that 2 pple of diff sexes can be good frenz coz he feels dere's bound to be feelings despite within a party or both parties!! its either 1 party likes e other person but dun dare to tell him/her or both parties like each other but dun want to sae it out for sum reasons!! it caused mi to re-consider e qn which yy asked mi...i mean i still believe dere can be such a ting happening...but how abt in e long run?? can anybody guarantee tt @ least 1 party won't like e other?? feelings grow as time pass...if 2 pple alwaes go out so often or if nt sms or chat on msn frequently...who can promise dere won't be feelings??
i still rmb when i went chocolate buffet wif mi gd fren clarence last yr...he asked mi dis qn "did u ever tink if we may end up 2gether??"...haha dis came as quite a shock coz i didnt expect him to ask mi tt!! mi answer to him was "i dunno leh"...n he oso gave e same answer when i asked him tt!! we both dunno wat lies in e future for us...its juz a 50-50 answer!! sum pple fr e older generation feel tt gd frens shld be together (as in bgr) as dey feel both parties alr noe each other so well n r so close to each other!! but majority of pple fr our generation feel otherwise. we feel tt if 2 good frens r in a relationshop together...if dey unluckily break up...tt may mark e end of e frenship!! ironic huh?? if 2pple like each other...of coz dey'll want to be together but dey're oso scared tt their friendship will be destroyed if anyting happens!! so pathetic....
well wateva tt happens in e future...we'll juz leave it to fate!!! i guess no1 has a definite answer to dis qn...everybody haf their own views!!! juz sum advice to dose pple who r turning fr gd frens to boy-girl frenz...pls ask urselves if both parties r confident of a long-lasting relationship!! if both parties aren't very confident...den ask if u tink both of u can still be frenz even if u all break up!! i feel its beta to be safe den sorry...anywae good luck peeps!!!! :)
what we could have been, 11:07 PM.
